It’s much easier to not know things sometimes. Things change and friends leave. And life doesn’t stop for anybody. I wanted to laugh. Or maybe get mad. Or maybe shrug at how strange everybody was, especially me. I think the idea is that every person has to live for his or her own life and than make the choice to share it with other people. You can’t just sit their and put everybody’s lives ahead of yours and think that counts as love. You just can’t. You have to do things. I’m going to do what I want to do. I’m going to be who I really am. And I’m going to figure out what that is. And we could all sit around and wonder and feel bad about each other and blame a lot of people for what they did or didn’t do or what they didn’t know. I don’t know. I guess there could always be someone to blame. It’s just different. Maybe it’s good to put things in perspective, but sometimes, I think that the only perspective is to really be there. Because it’s okay to feel things. Girl. 20. Paris. xTumblr (3.0; @lightonmyshoulders)http://lightonmyshoulders.tumblr.com/<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/d269aaea96cd167bb36eaf7ca25cf848/tumblr_mkxvmiqPhT1qip73ao10_r1_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/54d20a33ed8bc93a37df19f4b9d0c9af/tumblr_mkxvmiqPhT1qip73ao8_r1_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/a0d6e268734d62ce25cf590878113ade/tumblr_mkxvmiqPhT1qip73ao2_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/a5864c2d27984590c86483cb343d89d0/tumblr_mkxvmiqPhT1qip73ao7_r1_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/c921ef2101f3a0e5e4c99b7226df0581/tumblr_mkxvmiqPhT1qip73ao1_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/e8027aa30d063f866c99a4ac7c2a831e/tumblr_mkxvmiqPhT1qip73ao9_r1_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/a3244fe8d00ef32b64dea6fc6c585b4d/tumblr_mkxvmiqPhT1qip73ao3_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/fa14fe937823bcb6764e4759ede767f4/tumblr_mkxvmiqPhT1qip73ao6_r1_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/5936cb32e515718765cfea084910fd39/tumblr_mkxvmiqPhT1qip73ao11_r1_250.gif"/><br/> <br/>http://lightonmyshoulders.tumblr.com/post/50412954770http://lightonmyshoulders.tumblr.com/post/50412954770Tue, 14 May 2013 06:54:56 -0400<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/0d24b003815d907c808bc56ef08823d7/tumblr_mmnipmIIXz1rh1wv4o1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://lightonmyshoulders.tumblr.com/post/50337016351http://lightonmyshoulders.tumblr.com/post/50337016351Mon, 13 May 2013 08:04:01 -0400<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/acf0a8294437e17344b793eaf603cdd4/tumblr_mmqdh0ftLE1qilavno1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p>Metz. – View on <a href="https://path.com/p/XGHZj" target="_blank">Path</a>.</p>http://lightonmyshoulders.tumblr.com/post/50332548036http://lightonmyshoulders.tumblr.com/post/50332548036Mon, 13 May 2013 05:38:59 -0400“I’m going to tell you what a demon once told me: It is okay to want your own happiness. It’s okay to care about yourself the most. It’s okay to do what’s healthy for you. When someone hits you, it’s okay to hit back and then ask them what the hell they expected. It’s okay. You are not obligated to sit there and smile and swallow every bit of shit everyone heaps on you. You are more than furniture, you’re more than window dressing, you’re not their shiny toy. You’re human, and you have the right to say “That was shitty of you”. You have a right to say “Let me feed that back to you; tell me, how does it taste?” You have a right to protest your own mistreatment and set boundaries for respectful interactions. The rest of the world doesn’t realize you have this right, and they will act offended and appalled when you exercise it, but it is yours.”<br/><br/> - <em>SonneillonV (via <a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://sonneillonv.tumblr.com/" target="_blank">sonneillonv</a>)</em>http://lightonmyshoulders.tumblr.com/post/50263519784http://lightonmyshoulders.tumblr.com/post/50263519784Sun, 12 May 2013 11:40:18 -0400<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/1ef542cfab7123cbad7c316b25ca2018/tumblr_mmahttRixs1qilavno1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://lightonmyshoulders.tumblr.com/post/49616889247http://lightonmyshoulders.tumblr.com/post/49616889247Sat, 04 May 2013 15:51:29 -0400fisheyelensfisheyePariscoloursphotography<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/97da4ed9d6e0fec5a06478b0a3d9c563/tumblr_mm6nw9Udxv1qilavno1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://lightonmyshoulders.tumblr.com/post/49448731334http://lightonmyshoulders.tumblr.com/post/49448731334Thu, 02 May 2013 14:12:09 -0400<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/e052009691c7b8856bbb53456807887d/tumblr_mm6nusncOt1qilavno1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://lightonmyshoulders.tumblr.com/post/49448684811http://lightonmyshoulders.tumblr.com/post/49448684811Thu, 02 May 2013 14:11:16 -0400starbuckscoffee<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/25a7707c966bc393315d88a92a5850f9/tumblr_ml010uXphH1rp28yio1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://lightonmyshoulders.tumblr.com/post/49122827954http://lightonmyshoulders.tumblr.com/post/49122827954Sun, 28 Apr 2013 17:06:53 -0400<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/9c0811b73e01d2f2c68a519536415254/tumblr_mlz46csoZg1rejejqo1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://lightonmyshoulders.tumblr.com/post/49122741924http://lightonmyshoulders.tumblr.com/post/49122741924Sun, 28 Apr 2013 17:05:49 -0400<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/66692f0f823ea86299626e9b9598444e/tumblr_mltzpse7j31qilavno1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://lightonmyshoulders.tumblr.com/post/48880440051http://lightonmyshoulders.tumblr.com/post/48880440051Thu, 25 Apr 2013 17:58:40 -0400<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/315096c85d0c3a694a8cc2fea97ac173/tumblr_mltzkuSQrz1qilavno1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://lightonmyshoulders.tumblr.com/post/48880224467http://lightonmyshoulders.tumblr.com/post/48880224467Thu, 25 Apr 2013 17:55:42 -0400sunPhotographie<p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://imsocrrown.tumblr.com/post/48839071417/me-after-watching-beyonce-perform-grown-woman-she-took" target="_blank">imsocrrown</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><img alt="image" src="http://media.tumblr.com/77bee3201f476ce0e33250bbde164a30/tumblr_inline_mlsse9OVK51qz4rgp.gif"/></p> <p><img alt="image" src="http://media.tumblr.com/8224bedb20122a7960234b9ea9d1d348/tumblr_inline_mlssfjECWW1qz4rgp.gif"/></p> <p><img alt="image" src="http://media.tumblr.com/0b28d1bee4a0c68998abc15dab10cb53/tumblr_inline_mlssjjYUnd1qz4rgp.gif"/></p> <p><img alt="image" src="http://media.tumblr.com/ac5c1068615132f2b33a287f4d674b82/tumblr_inline_mlssh3N6zr1qz4rgp.gif"/></p> <p><img alt="image" src="http://media.tumblr.com/513f93e6d933e4dbf9eb69967dfab010/tumblr_inline_mlssi2dQq01qz4rgp.gif"/></p> <p><img alt="image" src="http://media.tumblr.com/769fb4cd35ac9f1a52a8f36b11b9acb4/tumblr_inline_mlst76OSCn1qz4rgp.gif"/></p> <p></p> </blockquote>http://lightonmyshoulders.tumblr.com/post/48840597595http://lightonmyshoulders.tumblr.com/post/48840597595Thu, 25 Apr 2013 03:24:15 -0400<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/95b8321442cabf06629a42d08bfb8145/tumblr_mlstjmBD3O1reay03o1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://lightonmyshoulders.tumblr.com/post/48840583326http://lightonmyshoulders.tumblr.com/post/48840583326Thu, 25 Apr 2013 03:23:43 -0400<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/8b2d5180783154a10174ad63aa46a9c1/tumblr_mlo6qx1wFY1qilavno1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://lightonmyshoulders.tumblr.com/post/48626724979http://lightonmyshoulders.tumblr.com/post/48626724979Mon, 22 Apr 2013 14:44:57 -0400ParissubwayPhotographyphotosNikonUndergroundart<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/4ad327fd73d45c69d5bb6a3ee570213c/tumblr_mlo6okBgAR1qilavno1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://lightonmyshoulders.tumblr.com/post/48626639224http://lightonmyshoulders.tumblr.com/post/48626639224Mon, 22 Apr 2013 14:43:31 -0400subwayphotographyparisnikon<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/23c711bdd79d656db110f88453fe3ec3/tumblr_mlmk7lsO2v1qilavno1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://lightonmyshoulders.tumblr.com/post/48558533370http://lightonmyshoulders.tumblr.com/post/48558533370Sun, 21 Apr 2013 17:40:33 -0400<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/86c5436ce0338a3dae39f7dd87ea3c85/tumblr_mhc6sbS6WY1r0oqiso1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://jamespbrady.tumblr.com/post/41771456601/untitled-by-casualtimetravel-on-flickr" target="_blank">jamespbrady</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/casualtimetravel/5814527567/" title="untitled" target="_blank">untitled</a> by <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/casualtimetravel/" target="_blank">casualtimetravel</a> on Flickr.</p> </blockquote>http://lightonmyshoulders.tumblr.com/post/48466696748http://lightonmyshoulders.tumblr.com/post/48466696748Sat, 20 Apr 2013 16:59:28 -0400<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/f9df807f56f4fd64fd66757ceda4640f/tumblr_ml1cps1lvV1r3dmm5o1_500.png"/><br/><br/>http://lightonmyshoulders.tumblr.com/post/48462821083http://lightonmyshoulders.tumblr.com/post/48462821083Sat, 20 Apr 2013 16:06:31 -0400<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/daf964c533281d31c80fc8abadeb522b/tumblr_mlkcba3hby1r1hm4ao1_500.gif"/><br/><br/>http://lightonmyshoulders.tumblr.com/post/48461424731http://lightonmyshoulders.tumblr.com/post/48461424731Sat, 20 Apr 2013 15:47:42 -0400<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/291804314915a9e21e760d1d3086f301/tumblr_mlkeblB3Xx1s9ifzyo1_500.png"/><br/><br/>http://lightonmyshoulders.tumblr.com/post/48461221991http://lightonmyshoulders.tumblr.com/post/48461221991Sat, 20 Apr 2013 15:44:56 -0400